Love Your Body: A Path to Self-Acceptance

I invite you to place your hands on your belly now, without judgment. Try it with gentle curiosity. Take a moment. Then tune in to any thoughts and feelings that may arise.

Some reflections to ponder:
Do you feel judgment toward your belly? If so, could you love it as it is—no matter the softness and shape? Could you find peace within yourself without needing to change to measure up to some external standard?

Embracing our bodies as they are is a radical act of self-love, especially in a world that places so much emphasis on appearance.

I used to feel shame about my body not being "perfect"—perfect according to society’s narrow ideals. Learning to love all of me, no matter my shape, has been a process. Now, as my body evolves—wrinkles, grey hair, a softer belly—I find within myself a fierce love for who I am becoming. That love reaches back to my younger self, embracing her with the kindness she didn’t yet know how to offer herself.

Breaking Free from Beauty Standards
Society conditions women to compare themselves to an unrealistic standard. These external pressures create an inner struggle that can last for years, fostering beliefs of not being good enough, undervaluing our strengths, and failing to see our true worth.

This affects not just our self-image, but also how we express ourselves and speak our truth. If we believe we don’t measure up, we may unconsciously seek approval by controlling our appearance and behavior. For me, that meant hiding my body, staying silent, and repressing my creative expression.

Shifting Our Inner World
The reality is, we can’t change the people around us to feel better about ourselves. The change happens from within. As we evolve and embrace our true identity, we attract relationships and experiences that support us in becoming our fullest selves.

Challenging external conditioning can be uncomfortable. It requires questioning long-held beliefs and stepping beyond familiar patterns. It may even bring unexpected reactions from others, tempting us to retreat to what feels safe. But the way through is to keep going—seeking support, healing old wounds, and recognizing the unconscious self-doubt that keeps us small.

This process invites us to explore who we are beyond societal expectations, guiding us toward a deeper connection with ourselves.

Finding Safety in Our Bodies
Many women feel disconnected from their bodies, as if they are unsafe places to inhabit. This is often due to societal conditioning that ties our worth to appearance.

But true safety comes from within. By accepting ourselves as we are, we cultivate a foundation of self-trust and a regulated nervous system. When we relate to our bodies with kindness, we create an inner sanctuary—one where we can fully be ourselves.

Reclaiming Self-Worth Beyond Appearance
People often believe that achieving a goal—like weight loss—will bring happiness. But the real question is: Can we feel happy and worthy now, exactly as we are?

Tuning into a deeper relationship with ourselves allows us to hear our inner truth beyond external noise. Learning to trust our gut and being true to ourselves starts with creating a loving relationship with who we are right now.

I invite you again to place your hands on your belly. Take a moment. With gentle curiosity, ask, "What do you need?" Let your body find a way to communicate with you. Trust its wisdom to guide you toward a kinder relationship with yourself.

Radical self-love takes courage—it means showing up for ourselves, even when it’s uncomfortable. By embracing ourselves fully, we create a foundation of self-worth that allows us to thrive, exactly as we are.

Katia Krassas

About me:

At mid-life I commenced a journey that resulted in healing trauma, letting go of people-pleasing, and finding my voice. I changed my career to become a Holistic Counsellor, Healer and Nature Connection Facilitator. I now help women connect to their inner power and be comfortable in their own skin.

See my bio here: natureconnectionempowerment

Katia Krassas6 March 2025Comment